The first movie in the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy is about to be released which means the hype is in full swing as is criticism. Ever since the release of the books we’ve heard (and discussed) how Fifty Shades is Abuse. How Fifty Shades doesn’t represent what BDSM and D/s is all about. Let’s talk about the reality of Fifty Shades, how it does represent an abusive relationship but that this is also something that happens in D/s relationships. There are dom/mes like Christian Grey, and this sad reality can’t be ignored. Fifty Shades of Grey doesn’t represent what BDSM normally entails, but it does depict a real perversion of a D/s relationship. (more…)
Episode 30: Death
This episode is about the death of a sub, admirer, client, whatever you want to call them. Someone who had let me into their life, had told me so many of their secrets and confided in me. Part of this is about getting some things out that I needed to get out and part is about others I know. (more…)
Episode 29: The Old Ladies Time Waster Mailbag
Sorry I’ve been away, the last few months have been completely crazy. Things are back to normal (abnormal?) now so I wanted to make sure I recorded an episode. A couple months ago a really unique timewaster contacted me again and I decided to waste some of his time. (more…)
Dungeon Diaries Episode 28: Foot Fetish
It’s about time I talk about feet. Foot fetish is one of the most popular fetishes, many people will want feet and only feet and even more love it when feet are a part of the overall session experience. So what do I think about foot fetish play?
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Intro music is Ghosts 19 by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV
Episode 27: Why I Love My Job
I don’t have much to say other than I decided to record an episode about the things that make me feel lucky to be a dominatrix. These are stories of lives I’ve helped better and things that just bring a smile to my face.
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Intro music is Ghost 19 by Nine Inch Nails off the album Ghosts I-IV
Episode 26: Banana Boy Part 4
Back by popular demand, banana boy. So many people bring him up, laugh about the previous episodes or make bananas in the butt jokes that I feel an obligation to update everyone on his latest escapades. What could be dumber than sticking a frozen banana up your butt? How about not knowing what the definition of “shiny” is. He told me that in his opinion this chain wasn’t shiny. What does that have to do with anything? You’ll have to listen to find out.
If you tune in you’ll get the banana boy’s exclusive acapella cover of Darude’s “Sandstorm.” Not sure what that is? Click here!
You’ll get all of that and more including an explanation of why this drawing exists:
Episode 25: Food in the Dungeon
I hope the audio is up to snuff in this episode. My throat was a bit rough and on top of that my recording came out really quiet. I tried to boost the audio so hopefully this didn’t boost any artifacts in the audio I missed. This episode is about food. Why I love gifts of food, how I like to involve food in sessions, and some philosophical musings on food based humiliation in things like puppy play.
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Intro music is Ghost 17 off the album Ghosts I-IV by Nine Inch Nails
Episode 24: BDSM in the Fifty Shades Trilogy
It’s been awhile, I know but I recorded a new episode! This time I took a look at sex and BDSM in the Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy as a whole. There are some spoilers in this episode, but I don’t go into depth into major plot points. So if you don’t want anything spoiled avoid this episode, if you don’t mind knowing a general outline, jump right in. (more…)
Happy Holidays!
Last week I decided to take some fun holiday photos, so happy holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa, a late Happy Chanukah and early Happy New Year to all! 
For anyone who is in the giving mood, my wishlist can be found here: http://amzn.com/w/7ELKUYLF72OM
Episode 23: Contacting a Dominatrix
It’s been awhile, I know! I’m finally back in the saddle with a new episode and episodes should be more frequent for now. This episode is a guide for how to contact a domme. What to do, what not to do, and why you shouldn’t do it. Simple? Not very simple for many people…
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Theme music is Ghosts 19 from the album Ghosts I-IV by Nine Inch Nails.